SCHOOL'S OUT FOR SUMMER!
Here is my list of goals for this wonderful season of freedom and happiness:
1. Annual climbing trip (this year we are headed to the Adirondacks and making stops in between in Virginia and Long Island to visit friends and family)
2. Make a t-shirt quilt
3. Create a scrapbook for our wedding (either through kodak or by hand)
4. Take a cake decorating class
5. Start running on a regular basis (I'm going enter a race in September)
6. Make two trips to my grandparents house, which is by the beach
7. Make a purse out of my old jeans
8. Find summer employment
9. Find permanent employment
10. Hopefully figure out the best place for my husband and I to live for a very long time
Saturday, June 13, 2009
Saturday, May 23, 2009
School Days
Okay, so I have been hesitant to write about my job on my blog, because there are always security issues. That was when I thought I might still be working for CMS next year. However, my job is end-of-the-year contracted and my position will not be there for me next year. In addition, I have been thinking a lot about it and I'm not too excited to work in the county because there are a lot of policies that drive me crazy. Maybe it is because my school is completely disorganized and I would feel different somewhere else, but I feel like there is so much extra expected from the teacher for such a meager salary. In all honesty if we stay in Charlotte I am looking to work in a office, because I will be paid the same amount with better benefits. However, Joe and I have been thinking about it a lot and this provides us with an opportunity to look at making a move. We may choose to go somewhere that we love versus where the "jobs" are. In the process we hope to find work to live in the area and work our way into the school system. It is one of our ideas right now. He also found a cool position that opened up in Bermuda....wouldn't that be fun to go there? Once again, we will figure it out with time. At this point I am in complete survival mode. I want to quit my job so bad, but I feel that I should finish it out, plus I really only have two and a half weeks...I can do it....I CAN do it...
So just to give you an idea of how school was last week. We gave the students their standardized tests (the EOGs) which was tiring on everyone. So on Monday morning I had my first block, 8th graders who were all worked up. They were beating on the desks and screaming "EOGs" in a rap like manner. In all honesty it might have been fun, if I wasn't trying to listen for announcements about when to start the test and send off two students to other rooms. So the proctor finally came into the room and we had to threaten them to get them quit. I had to tell them that I would have to write it down as an irregularity for talking during the test and they may all have to take it again. This mostly worked and thankfully they took the test without any hitches. It was a long three hours though and everyone was hungry. I felt bad for them too, because according to the schedule the 8th graders would be the last to eat that day. Imagine my surprise when I turned in all my materials and I found out that I was supposed to take my kids to lunch. Apparently they decided not to go with the schedule at all and kids from all grades were at lunch as a free for all.
I was just thinking, "okay, so when do I get my second block and then my third, because I have not had lunch yet and I was planning to eat during my planning." At this point it was about 1:30 so I was beginning to worry that I would not get a planning at all. I didn't think I was going to be able to eat, once again I was getting grumpy. After a lot of confusion on the teachers part, we found out that we did have our planning and then about 30 minutes of the fourth block. It was a long day and I was grumpy so of course I came home upset and then fought with my husband...let's just say this seems to be happening more often because we are both so unhappy.
Tuesday. More testing. It was a long math test, but a least the schedule was much better put together. Only one irregularity to report...a student in my class decided to listen to his ipod during the test. After circling the room and with only 20 minutes left in class he put an earphone in. Oh, and then after they were dismissed from my class he asked for the ipod back! Um, what? I also was fortunate to get two plannings because of my mix of teaching two grades. I also went for a good workout at night, so I couldn't complain. However, I did notice that the kids were crazier than ever after the tests. You would have thought it was the last day of school for them.
Wednesday. The last test is given out. My students did a good job. Let me tell you I would be tired of testing too. Three hours each day would be overwhelming. Anyhow, my classes afterwards were just as crazy as I could have expected. Especially because no one was suspended so I had a crazy class to deal with. Fortunately I got two plannings again, so I was grateful. However, a riot broke out at my school with seventh and sixth graders running around the school with security going after them. Normally we don't allow the different grade levels to change at the same time, because there are too many gang issues and fights break out. So of course the security and administration were worried by these kids running around the school (oh, we have outdoor hallways). So after school we had a staff meeting and our principal yelled at everyone for being irresponsible teachers. This pissed us off, because it was unprofessional and I'm tired of him not trusting or respecting his teachers. In fact, the whole thing was a miscommunication from administration anyways. The AP made an overhead announcement to check email for the schedule for the rest of the day, but elective teachers were in the lunch room monitoring, and of course they could not hear. Not to mention you can't really check email with students in the room...some classes that would be difficult to do. So the sixth graders were sent out before the seventh because the elective teachers did not know better. It was nobody's fault really, but completely upsetting to be yelled at for 20 minutes.
Thursday. No tests, so we were on a normal schedule, but North Carolina allows students to retake their standardized tests so we were in relooping schedule. No kids are being suspended, because they need the practice, just in case they did not pass. So classes are in full swing chaos. Plus, they feel like school is over so trying to convince them that they need to work is a chore. My 4th block came into my room (this group happens to be my worst class and let me tell you they are terrible). Right away I am talking with three or four of the good kids in that room, bless their hearts, when one of my most frustrating students came into the room and pulls the hairband out of my hair and says, "you look better with your hair down." I could not believe that he had just done that. Honestly, this is a minor offense. I deal with kids cursing at me. They write on the walls, the desks, the books. They break my crayons and colored pencils (supplies I bought with my own money) and throw them across the room. They cheat, lie, steal, and fight. There are days when two girls come into my room in a fight and I can't get them to shut up so I have to get security to escort them out. I could go on, but lets stick to this weekly schedule. So after he pulled my ponytail out I replied, "GO SIT DOWN! REMEMBER, I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND, I AM YOUR TEACHER. YOU DO NOT TOUCH ME!" That put a scowl on my face and the next student to enter the room said, "Are you made Mrs. D?" As I try to compose myself enough to give them book work, I notice that a security officer keeps asking for a few students from my room. I can really only give students in this class bookwork anymore, because they won't let me teach. I am more of a babysitter, making sure no one gets hurt. With bookwork I can keep my eyes on the room and keep part of my sanity. So as these kids are pulled out of the room and come back in they have to tell everyone what it is all about. "So-and-So thinks I stole her earphones." Well, one of the kids did steal her stuff and was denying it so the security officer made a scene. Many of the other trouble makers were defending him and making bullying comments about the girl who had something taken from her. Eventually the accused student got out of his seat and retrieves the earphones, which he throw under my tv stand. At that point most of the kids were just crazy and I couldn't get anyone to work and it was just getting louder and louder. I had enough, so I asked security to take out four of the worst. After passing out progress reports and most of them seeing their terrible grades I had another student get irate. She freaked out, accused me of favoritism, racism, and she couldn't understand how she had a D when she completed all the work. I had to remind her that completing work was not enough, she also need to do it well. Fortuntately it calmed down for a bit after she was gone.
Friday. Surprisingly, my day was not so bad. The thing is, I am really not an angry person. I am tired of constantly yelling and arguing with students. I get so worked up that it can be hard to relax at all and I snap at people a lot. On Friday morning I had a really, really hard time getting up in the morning. I did not want to go through another day of work. Maybe my students sensed this, because they were not so bad. Plus, a lot of students were absent...THANK HEAVENS! I was expecting a much worse day, so it was good that it was a mild day. Not too much yelling at kids.
I'm ready for it to be over. I can't even really begin to explain what it is like. Imagine rude, disrespectful kids who have many family problems. They come to school upset and angry, hungry or tired. Then throw in the fact that they are at a transitional time of development. They will fight with their friends, make new friends, change their style, or rebel against the system...that is part of being a teenager. Except, they also get high, or do other drugs. They bully each other worse than I have ever witnessed. Plus, many of them are really low learners...really low. So the work we give them is hard and they don't want to push themselves. I can't even get my students to write in complete sentences or read directions. I am tired and I have realized that teaching multiple years in an urban school is hard to do. I am not built for the job. Maybe it would get better, but every teacher I talk with at my school is burnt out. It is nothing like what I have experienced before. I just feel like it is a lot to do for the amount of money that I make...maybe I need to move on.
So this might give you a taste of why I don't blog anymore. I am tired. I am angry. I am sick of my daily routine. I do nothing fun, because I come home at night and try to de-stress. Thankfully it is almost over. Joe and I are planning to go to New York to climb in the Adirondacks. We will also visit family and I get to see my good friend, Aferdita, who will be having her bridal shower! This will take about three weeks of June. I cannot wait. It will be nice for us to get away. When we return we will assess our future. Until then, PRAY FOR ME! :)
So just to give you an idea of how school was last week. We gave the students their standardized tests (the EOGs) which was tiring on everyone. So on Monday morning I had my first block, 8th graders who were all worked up. They were beating on the desks and screaming "EOGs" in a rap like manner. In all honesty it might have been fun, if I wasn't trying to listen for announcements about when to start the test and send off two students to other rooms. So the proctor finally came into the room and we had to threaten them to get them quit. I had to tell them that I would have to write it down as an irregularity for talking during the test and they may all have to take it again. This mostly worked and thankfully they took the test without any hitches. It was a long three hours though and everyone was hungry. I felt bad for them too, because according to the schedule the 8th graders would be the last to eat that day. Imagine my surprise when I turned in all my materials and I found out that I was supposed to take my kids to lunch. Apparently they decided not to go with the schedule at all and kids from all grades were at lunch as a free for all.
I was just thinking, "okay, so when do I get my second block and then my third, because I have not had lunch yet and I was planning to eat during my planning." At this point it was about 1:30 so I was beginning to worry that I would not get a planning at all. I didn't think I was going to be able to eat, once again I was getting grumpy. After a lot of confusion on the teachers part, we found out that we did have our planning and then about 30 minutes of the fourth block. It was a long day and I was grumpy so of course I came home upset and then fought with my husband...let's just say this seems to be happening more often because we are both so unhappy.
Tuesday. More testing. It was a long math test, but a least the schedule was much better put together. Only one irregularity to report...a student in my class decided to listen to his ipod during the test. After circling the room and with only 20 minutes left in class he put an earphone in. Oh, and then after they were dismissed from my class he asked for the ipod back! Um, what? I also was fortunate to get two plannings because of my mix of teaching two grades. I also went for a good workout at night, so I couldn't complain. However, I did notice that the kids were crazier than ever after the tests. You would have thought it was the last day of school for them.
Wednesday. The last test is given out. My students did a good job. Let me tell you I would be tired of testing too. Three hours each day would be overwhelming. Anyhow, my classes afterwards were just as crazy as I could have expected. Especially because no one was suspended so I had a crazy class to deal with. Fortunately I got two plannings again, so I was grateful. However, a riot broke out at my school with seventh and sixth graders running around the school with security going after them. Normally we don't allow the different grade levels to change at the same time, because there are too many gang issues and fights break out. So of course the security and administration were worried by these kids running around the school (oh, we have outdoor hallways). So after school we had a staff meeting and our principal yelled at everyone for being irresponsible teachers. This pissed us off, because it was unprofessional and I'm tired of him not trusting or respecting his teachers. In fact, the whole thing was a miscommunication from administration anyways. The AP made an overhead announcement to check email for the schedule for the rest of the day, but elective teachers were in the lunch room monitoring, and of course they could not hear. Not to mention you can't really check email with students in the room...some classes that would be difficult to do. So the sixth graders were sent out before the seventh because the elective teachers did not know better. It was nobody's fault really, but completely upsetting to be yelled at for 20 minutes.
Thursday. No tests, so we were on a normal schedule, but North Carolina allows students to retake their standardized tests so we were in relooping schedule. No kids are being suspended, because they need the practice, just in case they did not pass. So classes are in full swing chaos. Plus, they feel like school is over so trying to convince them that they need to work is a chore. My 4th block came into my room (this group happens to be my worst class and let me tell you they are terrible). Right away I am talking with three or four of the good kids in that room, bless their hearts, when one of my most frustrating students came into the room and pulls the hairband out of my hair and says, "you look better with your hair down." I could not believe that he had just done that. Honestly, this is a minor offense. I deal with kids cursing at me. They write on the walls, the desks, the books. They break my crayons and colored pencils (supplies I bought with my own money) and throw them across the room. They cheat, lie, steal, and fight. There are days when two girls come into my room in a fight and I can't get them to shut up so I have to get security to escort them out. I could go on, but lets stick to this weekly schedule. So after he pulled my ponytail out I replied, "GO SIT DOWN! REMEMBER, I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND, I AM YOUR TEACHER. YOU DO NOT TOUCH ME!" That put a scowl on my face and the next student to enter the room said, "Are you made Mrs. D?" As I try to compose myself enough to give them book work, I notice that a security officer keeps asking for a few students from my room. I can really only give students in this class bookwork anymore, because they won't let me teach. I am more of a babysitter, making sure no one gets hurt. With bookwork I can keep my eyes on the room and keep part of my sanity. So as these kids are pulled out of the room and come back in they have to tell everyone what it is all about. "So-and-So thinks I stole her earphones." Well, one of the kids did steal her stuff and was denying it so the security officer made a scene. Many of the other trouble makers were defending him and making bullying comments about the girl who had something taken from her. Eventually the accused student got out of his seat and retrieves the earphones, which he throw under my tv stand. At that point most of the kids were just crazy and I couldn't get anyone to work and it was just getting louder and louder. I had enough, so I asked security to take out four of the worst. After passing out progress reports and most of them seeing their terrible grades I had another student get irate. She freaked out, accused me of favoritism, racism, and she couldn't understand how she had a D when she completed all the work. I had to remind her that completing work was not enough, she also need to do it well. Fortuntately it calmed down for a bit after she was gone.
Friday. Surprisingly, my day was not so bad. The thing is, I am really not an angry person. I am tired of constantly yelling and arguing with students. I get so worked up that it can be hard to relax at all and I snap at people a lot. On Friday morning I had a really, really hard time getting up in the morning. I did not want to go through another day of work. Maybe my students sensed this, because they were not so bad. Plus, a lot of students were absent...THANK HEAVENS! I was expecting a much worse day, so it was good that it was a mild day. Not too much yelling at kids.
I'm ready for it to be over. I can't even really begin to explain what it is like. Imagine rude, disrespectful kids who have many family problems. They come to school upset and angry, hungry or tired. Then throw in the fact that they are at a transitional time of development. They will fight with their friends, make new friends, change their style, or rebel against the system...that is part of being a teenager. Except, they also get high, or do other drugs. They bully each other worse than I have ever witnessed. Plus, many of them are really low learners...really low. So the work we give them is hard and they don't want to push themselves. I can't even get my students to write in complete sentences or read directions. I am tired and I have realized that teaching multiple years in an urban school is hard to do. I am not built for the job. Maybe it would get better, but every teacher I talk with at my school is burnt out. It is nothing like what I have experienced before. I just feel like it is a lot to do for the amount of money that I make...maybe I need to move on.
So this might give you a taste of why I don't blog anymore. I am tired. I am angry. I am sick of my daily routine. I do nothing fun, because I come home at night and try to de-stress. Thankfully it is almost over. Joe and I are planning to go to New York to climb in the Adirondacks. We will also visit family and I get to see my good friend, Aferdita, who will be having her bridal shower! This will take about three weeks of June. I cannot wait. It will be nice for us to get away. When we return we will assess our future. Until then, PRAY FOR ME! :)
Monday, May 11, 2009
A Quick Update
Life has been tough lately and I have lost motivation to do most of the things that I enjoy. So blogging has become none existant for a while. I'm trying to make that change though. Today I took a "mental health day," which was SO nice. I have never done that before, but let me confess that it was needed. I am about to walk out on my job and there is only a month left. So I am just trying to survive! Anyhow, I eventually want to write about my Dirty Dancing moment, but that will just have to come with the next post. I saw this on facebook and thought it would be fun to fill out and where better than on my blog! Enjoy.
65 Questions You've Probably Never Been Asked...you know the rules. tag people in this note (including the person who tagged you!) to learn more about people. Also, try to tag people who you've tagged in other notes, sometimes you learn things in new notes that you didn't know before about them...
1. First thing you wash in the shower?My har
2. What color is your favorite hoodie?Gray (an old BYU sweatshirt)
3. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again?I certainly hope so, I have the rest of my life with him!
4. Do you plan outfits?nope, I just think about it in the shower
5. How are you feeling RIGHT now? anxious about work and my lesson for church
6. What's the closest thing to you that's red?the blanket that's on my legs
7. Tell me about the last dream you remember having? This morning I had a dream that I was taking down all the posters in my classroom with the plans to quit (something I was worried about if I were to just quit my job)
8. Did you meet anybody new today? No
9. What are you craving right now? ice cream
10. Do you floss? No really, only like for the two weeks before I go to the dentist
11. What comes to mind when I say cabbage? soup
12. Are you emotional? Yes, and lately it is really affecting me
13. Have you ever counted to 1,000? I don't it
14. Do you bite into ice cream or just lick it? I think I lick
15. Do you like your hair? Yes, it has been fun to grow it out the last year
16. Do you like yourself? Yes, but I have guilt and self concious issues like the average girl
17. Would you go out to eat with George W. Bush? Yeah, that could be interesting
18. What are you listening to right now? The Dog Whisperer, my husband is watching it
19. Are your parents strict? I don't think so, but they are conservative
20. Would you go sky diving? Yes, I have already done it once
21. Do you like cottage cheese? Yes, but I get sick of eating it for periods of time
22. Have you ever met a celebrity? Nope, but I doubt I would even realize it, I can be unobservant about some things
23. Do you rent movies often? Not really, maybe once a month from the redbox
24. Is there anything sparkly in the room you're in? Nothing sparkly
25. How many countries have you visited? Wow, um, 20 countries
26. Have you made a prank phone call? Yeah, back in middle school
27. Ever been on a train? yes, the last trip was during Thanksgiving when Joe and I returned from Greece to Macedonia on our way home to Kosova
28. Brown or white eggs? I buy both, Joe got me into brown eggs
29. Do you have a cell-phone? Yes
30. Do you use chap stick? Yes, I like medicated kinds that make my lips tingle
31. Do you own a gun? No, and I have no desire either
32. Can you use chop sticks? Yes, but I'm probably not great at it
33. Who are you going to be with tonight? my husband, dog and cat!
34. Are you too forgiving? Yes, with the people that are most important to me
35. Ever been in love? Yes. Twice
36. What is (are) your best friend(s) doing tomorrow? I don't know, maybe we are not that close, my husband is going to work, he counts, right?
37. Have you ever had cream puffs? Yes, they are good too.
38. Last time you cried? Hah, on Saturday, part of my dirty dancing moment
39. What was the last question you asked? Joe, can I use the computer?
40. Favorite time of the year? Summer
41. Do you have any tattoos? No, and I don't want any either
42. Are you sarcastic? Not really, maybe sometimes with my students
43. Have you ever seen The Butterfly Effect? No
44. Ever walked into a wall? I hit them all the time with my hips
45. Favorite color? green
46. Have you ever slapped someone? Yes, my sister when I was really mad at her, right on the face
47. Is your hair curly? Stick straight
48. What was the last CD you bought? I can't remember, can you tell that music is not a priority for me
49. Do looks matter? Yes, the way you look says a lot about it, but as the other person it is important to see past that too
50. Could you ever forgive a 'cheater'? Yes, but I think I would need do go through counseling too
51. Is your phone bill sky high? No, my brother works for Sprint so I get a good deal
52. Do you like your life right now? I really hate my job and anyone who talks to me knows that, but I love being a newlywed.
53. Do you sleep with the TV on? No, I can't fall asleep with it on, so I will never have a tv in my room.
54. Can you handle the truth? Yes, but I like when it is give in a constructive, open way.
55. Do you have good vision? Well, I don't have to wear glasses, but I'm not that great with seeing road signs, it is really weird actually
56. Do you hate or dislike more than 3 people? I don't think I hate anyone, but yes I definitely dislike over 3 people.
57. How often do you talk on the phone? Um, not too often
58. The last person you held hands with? My husband, yesterday
59. What are you wearing? Pajama pants and a long sleeved t-shirt
60.What is your favorite animal? I don't know
61. Where was your default picture taken? What's a default pciture?
62. Can you hula hoop? No, I tried in Kosova, it didn't work.
63. Do you have a job? Yes, as a teacher in an inner-city school - it is tough, really tough
64. What was the most recent thing you bought? Food for dinner and right before that a dress from TJ Maxx
65. Have you ever crawled through a window? Yes
65 Questions You've Probably Never Been Asked...you know the rules. tag people in this note (including the person who tagged you!) to learn more about people. Also, try to tag people who you've tagged in other notes, sometimes you learn things in new notes that you didn't know before about them...
1. First thing you wash in the shower?My har
2. What color is your favorite hoodie?Gray (an old BYU sweatshirt)
3. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again?I certainly hope so, I have the rest of my life with him!
4. Do you plan outfits?nope, I just think about it in the shower
5. How are you feeling RIGHT now? anxious about work and my lesson for church
6. What's the closest thing to you that's red?the blanket that's on my legs
7. Tell me about the last dream you remember having? This morning I had a dream that I was taking down all the posters in my classroom with the plans to quit (something I was worried about if I were to just quit my job)
8. Did you meet anybody new today? No
9. What are you craving right now? ice cream
10. Do you floss? No really, only like for the two weeks before I go to the dentist
11. What comes to mind when I say cabbage? soup
12. Are you emotional? Yes, and lately it is really affecting me
13. Have you ever counted to 1,000? I don't it
14. Do you bite into ice cream or just lick it? I think I lick
15. Do you like your hair? Yes, it has been fun to grow it out the last year
16. Do you like yourself? Yes, but I have guilt and self concious issues like the average girl
17. Would you go out to eat with George W. Bush? Yeah, that could be interesting
18. What are you listening to right now? The Dog Whisperer, my husband is watching it
19. Are your parents strict? I don't think so, but they are conservative
20. Would you go sky diving? Yes, I have already done it once
21. Do you like cottage cheese? Yes, but I get sick of eating it for periods of time
22. Have you ever met a celebrity? Nope, but I doubt I would even realize it, I can be unobservant about some things
23. Do you rent movies often? Not really, maybe once a month from the redbox
24. Is there anything sparkly in the room you're in? Nothing sparkly
25. How many countries have you visited? Wow, um, 20 countries
26. Have you made a prank phone call? Yeah, back in middle school
27. Ever been on a train? yes, the last trip was during Thanksgiving when Joe and I returned from Greece to Macedonia on our way home to Kosova
28. Brown or white eggs? I buy both, Joe got me into brown eggs
29. Do you have a cell-phone? Yes
30. Do you use chap stick? Yes, I like medicated kinds that make my lips tingle
31. Do you own a gun? No, and I have no desire either
32. Can you use chop sticks? Yes, but I'm probably not great at it
33. Who are you going to be with tonight? my husband, dog and cat!
34. Are you too forgiving? Yes, with the people that are most important to me
35. Ever been in love? Yes. Twice
36. What is (are) your best friend(s) doing tomorrow? I don't know, maybe we are not that close, my husband is going to work, he counts, right?
37. Have you ever had cream puffs? Yes, they are good too.
38. Last time you cried? Hah, on Saturday, part of my dirty dancing moment
39. What was the last question you asked? Joe, can I use the computer?
40. Favorite time of the year? Summer
41. Do you have any tattoos? No, and I don't want any either
42. Are you sarcastic? Not really, maybe sometimes with my students
43. Have you ever seen The Butterfly Effect? No
44. Ever walked into a wall? I hit them all the time with my hips
45. Favorite color? green
46. Have you ever slapped someone? Yes, my sister when I was really mad at her, right on the face
47. Is your hair curly? Stick straight
48. What was the last CD you bought? I can't remember, can you tell that music is not a priority for me
49. Do looks matter? Yes, the way you look says a lot about it, but as the other person it is important to see past that too
50. Could you ever forgive a 'cheater'? Yes, but I think I would need do go through counseling too
51. Is your phone bill sky high? No, my brother works for Sprint so I get a good deal
52. Do you like your life right now? I really hate my job and anyone who talks to me knows that, but I love being a newlywed.
53. Do you sleep with the TV on? No, I can't fall asleep with it on, so I will never have a tv in my room.
54. Can you handle the truth? Yes, but I like when it is give in a constructive, open way.
55. Do you have good vision? Well, I don't have to wear glasses, but I'm not that great with seeing road signs, it is really weird actually
56. Do you hate or dislike more than 3 people? I don't think I hate anyone, but yes I definitely dislike over 3 people.
57. How often do you talk on the phone? Um, not too often
58. The last person you held hands with? My husband, yesterday
59. What are you wearing? Pajama pants and a long sleeved t-shirt
60.What is your favorite animal? I don't know
61. Where was your default picture taken? What's a default pciture?
62. Can you hula hoop? No, I tried in Kosova, it didn't work.
63. Do you have a job? Yes, as a teacher in an inner-city school - it is tough, really tough
64. What was the most recent thing you bought? Food for dinner and right before that a dress from TJ Maxx
65. Have you ever crawled through a window? Yes
Monday, March 30, 2009
Sorry, for not writing in so very long. Joe and I have been busy, although I have been home most Sundays I just haven't put the time and effort into writing on the blog. We are surviving our jobs! Actually, both of us teach at urban schools and there are days when I come home at night and I just think, "I hate my job." Most days however, it is just very tiring. Occasionally I walk away feeling like I might have actually made a difference. I actually think if I had started here at the beginning of the year, some things would be a lot easier. They are still learning my routines, plus they are used to having some bad habits. I'm learning a lot though. They know how to pull out the worst, and there are times I just have to tell myself to calm down. My blood pressure rises and my face litterally turns red and nothing good comes out of it. Or I end of arguing back and forth with a child that has no respect. Seriously, it makes me miss Kosova and my old school. Then again, I think...when else will I get to say that I taught in an inner city school? I will have some good stories!
The only scary part is that I am only end of the year contracted, since I came in the middle of the year. Since the county is being hit hard with the economy that means my job is basically over and so is my husbands. Not that these jobs are great, but is is scary to think that in the middle of June we are both going to be out of work. It is a little scary for both of us and I am looking at lots of different counties for work. And of course I want to think so much about our future...I am ready to buy a house and start a family. Hopefully our hard work will pay off and we will find ourselves in a good situation, with better jobs, in a place we love.
Joe and I were talking about it and we are cancelling our spring break plans to go to counties and meet with principals to try to get an extra edge at positions. I mentioned that I would quit teaching if I could get into the wedding planning business. My dream summer job would be an assistant to a wedding planner and learn about the business. If I did a good job the planner would immediately take me on full time, and I would do that for a while! Wouldn't that be awesome? Well, I can dream, right? I don't even know how I am going to get myself into that business...but one day that would be fun!
So we are busy and trying to get a routine in our lives right now. Maybe after spring break I will have some good updates, with pictures of our adventures. In the meantime, I get to read everyone elses stories!
The only scary part is that I am only end of the year contracted, since I came in the middle of the year. Since the county is being hit hard with the economy that means my job is basically over and so is my husbands. Not that these jobs are great, but is is scary to think that in the middle of June we are both going to be out of work. It is a little scary for both of us and I am looking at lots of different counties for work. And of course I want to think so much about our future...I am ready to buy a house and start a family. Hopefully our hard work will pay off and we will find ourselves in a good situation, with better jobs, in a place we love.
Joe and I were talking about it and we are cancelling our spring break plans to go to counties and meet with principals to try to get an extra edge at positions. I mentioned that I would quit teaching if I could get into the wedding planning business. My dream summer job would be an assistant to a wedding planner and learn about the business. If I did a good job the planner would immediately take me on full time, and I would do that for a while! Wouldn't that be awesome? Well, I can dream, right? I don't even know how I am going to get myself into that business...but one day that would be fun!
So we are busy and trying to get a routine in our lives right now. Maybe after spring break I will have some good updates, with pictures of our adventures. In the meantime, I get to read everyone elses stories!
Saturday, February 28, 2009
Sometimes we have days that are super important for us. Today was one of those days. It has been rough for Joe and I recently with work and car troubles, and I just needed a day to think spiritually. We are both working in inner-city schools. The students are rough, with little respect and desire to learn. I am being challenged everyday and it has been tough to teach them, most of the time I am just trying to control them. Joe is at his ropes end with teaching too. Plus, we have had car troubles...First it started with an accident when someone hit our old truck two days after moving to Charlotte. Thankfully we received money to fix the repairs, and Joe was able to do most of the repairs himself. We thought we had made a little money from it, but then someone decided to shatter the sun roof to our brand new Element. We had to have that repaired this week. Honestly, it just seems like we are full of bad luck lately.
So today I went to a church activity for the sisters and it was exactly what I needed. I am so grateful to be a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Times are hard right now, but I have hope that things will be better. Life experiences teach us things. Someone reminded me that they look back on their hardest times and find that even when it was a struggle they realized there was so much happiness too. And when it gets hard that is when we need to lean on our Savior the most. What a blessing to know this in my life. So we will get through the rough times, we just have to endure!
So today I went to a church activity for the sisters and it was exactly what I needed. I am so grateful to be a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Times are hard right now, but I have hope that things will be better. Life experiences teach us things. Someone reminded me that they look back on their hardest times and find that even when it was a struggle they realized there was so much happiness too. And when it gets hard that is when we need to lean on our Savior the most. What a blessing to know this in my life. So we will get through the rough times, we just have to endure!
Saturday, February 14, 2009
5 Things Love
Just in time for Valentine's Day. I think I need some time to focus on all the wonderful things in my life. So I will quickly mention, 5 things that I love:
1. My husband. He always impresses me with the new skills that he can acquire. This last month after a car accident, he was able to do most of the repairs after he found parts at the local junk yard. I was truly amazed. Plus, he is a great chef and always helps me with the dishes. And I know that he loves me back.
2. The power of prayer. We have had it rough the last few months. I know we made the changes in our lives and I know it has not been easy, but I feel like Heavenly Father has truly watched over our lives, and we have been blessed to find teaching jobs in the middle of a school year.
3. Cooking. Playing the piano was a huge relaxer for me when I was younger, but now I have no piano and I really do not get to practice. So I cook. It has become a favorite hobby of mine and I love to try new recipes.
4. My cat. She may be a little crazy, but AP is my cat and I am so happy to have her back in my life. I really missed her while I was in Kosova.
5. Craigslist. I know that I have mentioned it before, but I am realizing all these new ways to find great furniture. I like brand new items, but I am also a fan of eclectic, or antique design. So being able to search a website, bargain for prices, and then score some good deals has become a new enjoyment. I am still not perfect at it, but I think it will be a new way of shopping for me in the future.
1. My husband. He always impresses me with the new skills that he can acquire. This last month after a car accident, he was able to do most of the repairs after he found parts at the local junk yard. I was truly amazed. Plus, he is a great chef and always helps me with the dishes. And I know that he loves me back.
2. The power of prayer. We have had it rough the last few months. I know we made the changes in our lives and I know it has not been easy, but I feel like Heavenly Father has truly watched over our lives, and we have been blessed to find teaching jobs in the middle of a school year.
3. Cooking. Playing the piano was a huge relaxer for me when I was younger, but now I have no piano and I really do not get to practice. So I cook. It has become a favorite hobby of mine and I love to try new recipes.
4. My cat. She may be a little crazy, but AP is my cat and I am so happy to have her back in my life. I really missed her while I was in Kosova.
5. Craigslist. I know that I have mentioned it before, but I am realizing all these new ways to find great furniture. I like brand new items, but I am also a fan of eclectic, or antique design. So being able to search a website, bargain for prices, and then score some good deals has become a new enjoyment. I am still not perfect at it, but I think it will be a new way of shopping for me in the future.
Monday, February 9, 2009
Addicted to Craigslist
Since we have moved into our new apartment, we have noticed to massive prices on furniture. With the chaos or the last two weeks, it just seemed right that we find furniture as cheap as possible. Thankfully we had a few good pieces to start with, like my antique bed and dresser (which will one day go into a guest room). We also had most things for our kitchen and a small dining room table. So I have been on the look out for a full sized mattress, to fit in the antique bed, living room furniture, a desk and chair, and a dresser for Joe. My budget is to not spend more than $1000 to get ourselves set up comfortably. This is what I have scored so far:
office chair: $30
leather loveseat and couch: $450
Bookshelves: $65
Mattress: $130
Desk: $60
Price to feel like we really have a home: Priceless
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